The Power of Example

There is form of communication  that transcends the  power of words   Joseph B. Wirthlin

The Power of Example

Some of the world’s top squash players used to practise at the squash club where I play. I remember well the first time I saw at close hand a high-level squash game. It was the son of one of our regular group of players, who at the time was ranked number 11 in the world. He came to practice at our club with the world number 2.

We all watched in amazement. We had never seen anything like it. In fact, if that was ‘squash’, what we played should be called something else!

Watching them always raised our game. Suddenly we realized that it was possible to return practically any shot your opponent could serve you, however good they were. We saw how important it was to get back to the middle of the court after each shot. We watched how deep they hit the ball. We noticed the shots that they avoided playing.

When we went on court after that, we astonished ourselves by how well we played. Of course, we did not play anywhere near as well as them. But, inspired by their example, we played a whole lot better than usual.

During my Christian life I have found the same pattern. For example, I had the privilege of working for Sandy Millar for nineteen years. Through watching his life and hearing him preach I was always inspired by his example. Even though reaching the level of those who are examples to us might not be possible, hopefully it inspires us to raise our game.

A Christian is someone who believes in Jesus, puts their faith in him, knows him and lives ‘in Christ’. It is also someone who follows his example.

There is no greater example in human history than the example of Christ. Paul writes, ‘Follow my example, as I follow the example of Christ’ (1 Corinthians 11:1).

1. Example of your life

Proverbs 20:5-14How you live affects others. You look to others for an example. Others look to you as an example. This happens whether you like it or not.

Nowhere is this more the case than with parents and children. I have noticed how many of my father’s eccentricities I seem to have picked up. Of course, parents provide examples in more serious ways too: ‘The righteous lead blameless lives; blessed are their children after them’ (v.7).

Parents who live lives of integrity bring great blessings to their children. Billy Graham said, ‘Integrity is the glue that holds our way of life together. We must constantly strive to keep our integrity intact. When wealth is lost, nothing is lost; when health is lost, something is lost; when character is lost, all is lost.’

No one has ever lived a perfect life apart from Jesus: ‘Who among us can be trusted to be always diligent and honest?’ (v.9, MSG). Nevertheless, we can all seek to live a life that is a good example.

Parents need to demonstrate faithfulness to each other, treating one another with patience and respect, resolving disagreements with grace, supporting one another in hardship and not being drawn into inappropriate relationships with other people. ‘Many claim to have unfailing love, but a faithful person who can find?’ (v.6).

Today’s inspirational articles shared from the following website: www.bibleinoneyear.org

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Happy Mother’s Day!!!

A Mother’s Love is Whole No Matter How Many Times it is DividedTo all Mothers everywhere:

Whether you have born children or not, all women who have nurtured and cared for children, held a child’s hand, wiped a child’s tear, or have been a positive influence in a child’s life in anyway….Thank you for your priceless gift!

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The Influence of a Mother…

What a mother sings to the cradle goes all the way down to the coffin   Henry Ward Beecher

The influence of a mother is beyond quantifying. As a mother of both biological and adopted children, I can tell you that the influence of a mother – Good or Bad is felt for a lifetime.

The ability to trust, love, and have empathy begins with a mother.

All mothers who dedicate themselves to their marriages and their children contribute in wonderful and positive ways to the wholeness and happiness of this world!

If you are one of those mothers, please know how important and priceless you are!

I hope you enjoy today’s story!:

The Influence of a Mother

In the fifth grade, “Bennie” was failing at school. He was elated to receive a D on an exam. After all, it was better than the F’s he was getting. Bennie’s mother didn’t share his excitement. “You can’t settle for just barely passing. You’re too smart to do that. You can make the top math grade in the class,” she said.

Long before it was commonplace in corporate America, Bennie’s mother implemented a self-improvement program in her home. She limited Bennie and his brother to three television programs a week and, in their free time, they would have to read two books a week and write a report at week’s end. “My boys are going to be successful in life, because they’re going to be the best readers in the school,” she explained. Bennie did become the best reader in school and, later, became famous for being the first neurosurgeon to successfully separate conjoined twins at the head. This week the former head of pediatric neurosurgery at Johns Hopkins, Dr. Ben Carson, threw his hat into the race for the GOP presidential nomination. “Almost daily she’d say, ‘Bennie, you can do anything you set yourself to do,’” Carson recalls in his autobiography, Gifted Hands.

If success leaves clues, maybe on this Mother’s Day we should take a clue from the lesson these mothers teach us. And the lesson is this—a title doesn’t confer leadership. True leadership is helping people to see their potential, even when they don’t see it themselves.

Story was shared from the following website: https://www.forbes.com/sites/carminegallo/2015/05/08/inspiring-mothers-who-motivated-famous-business-leaders/#30155b573a51

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